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Why I love Flowers
I love receiving flowers as gifts. On special days or
spontaneously. They make me smile. This simple effect explains it
all for me. Most people have their favorite flower(s), multi
colored and large or simple and plain. Either way their essence
touches us deeply.
Unlike other therapies that focus on the mind, flower essences
work very deeply releasing specific layers of emotional
imbalances. And the cost is unrivaled. Over the counter,
individual flower essences cost anywhere from $5.99 for ¼ oz. to
$14.99 to 1/2oz. In most cases one or two courses of bottles is
all that is needed. With the help of a person well versed in how
to use flower essences, you can easily get to the core of an issue
and save money and time, especially, if the issue or issues are in
the acute stages.
Here's one example where the flower essences work in the acute
stages. My friend's girlfriend was awakened by a nighttime
burglar. Fortunately she was not harmed, but the shock of the
experience was enough to throw her entire life into chaos. Her
sense of security in herself and her home was shattered. Her sleep
was broken and she found it difficult to concentrate at work.
Understandably, she was going through a post traumatic stress
response.
I was asked to help 3 days later. Everyone responds differently to
trauma so we gently talked through her immediate feelings and
found corresponding essences to match each one. And then finally
came down with a set of essences she could take for the next 30
minutes that would release the layers of trauma until she was back
to normal. After sipping the blend of essences, we gradually saw
her physically looking better and her voice was stronger and
stronger. She reported every so often that she was feeling better
and better. Safer, more calm, both in her home and within herself.
In less than an hour, in her words, there was what she observed as
a" total reversal."

Another significant example of long standing issues and releasing
layers of emotion involves a male cat named Spike. He was found
abandoned at a young age, de-clawed, neutered and his rear gland
used for marking his territory was removed. He was taken in, given
love and he seemed to flourish. Yet his ways of being on the
street were deeply ingrained and may have made him hard from
street life. It seemed that because of his removed claws, biting
was a common way of communication. Touching wasn't easy as he
would bite. He shied way from touch. And he had a very short
temper. He seemed bitter and angry. In a way, almost resentful
with the way he was treated. I had plenty to work with.
Animals share many similarities with humans, most outstandingly
emotions. Different species express emotions in unique ways. Some
animals exhibit no external manifestations of problems. But they
are there and can be dealt with very well. Animals can't tell you
what's bothering them but by spending enough time with them and
getting an accurate intake from their owners, a lot can be done.
By finding out which essences work I can get a very accurate view
of what their feelings are and which corresponding essences to use
to treat them.
I am very happy to report that after a whole slew of essences,
Spike is doing quite well. People who have known him have
commented at how happy and spry he is. And noticeably less grumpy.
He meows more often, something he rarely did, and greets people
when they come to visit. He doesn't resort to biting nearly as
often as before and is becoming more playful and less serious and
engaging with strangers. Trust has been a big factor with Spike.
Apparently in his past his trust was put to the test and then
broken with circumstances or by being abandoned. This easily leads
into forgiveness factors. By treating him for these issues he has
come along way. He is a totally different cat. I'm happy that I
was able to help him back on the road to emotional health.
There is another aspect of helping animals that should be pointed
out. Often times problems that arise are not really from the
animal but the owners. Here's what happens. Because our pets are
so closely associated physically and emotionally with us they have
a tendency to take on our dysfunctions too. So your anger, your
aggression, your impatience, your fears etc., can be imposed
unconsciously on your pet. Hence, your pet is a very good mirror
of your emotional state. And often times it's strongly recommended
that the owner should also have a flower essence consultation so
that both parties can resolve issues. If not, and the problem is
actually coming from the owner, then the treatment that is given
to the pet can come back because the real issue hasn't been
addressed.
This point should be stressed. Some owners may not treat animals
as humans but as objects through which to satisfy needs for status
or achievement. If the animals do not adequately meet or satisfy
these needs, they may be abandoned or discarded. Irrespective
therefore of whether animals are treated as humans or as objects,
their true nature and their real needs tend to be obscured and
distorted by selfish human wants, and may be ignored or dismissed
altogether, resulting in disorders and diseases. And on an honest
note for the owner, animals often reflect domestic circumstances
that their owners may be reluctant to reveal or admit.
That is why flower essences are important in the treatment of
animals because they restore the balance and harmony of an
animal's true nature, thereby remedying the disorders and diseases
resulting from its distortion by humans. I choose flower essences
because they do no harm. They are cost effective compared to other
mental and emotional therapies and the results are quick and in
almost all cases permanent. By stripping away the old personality
that has been either imposed on us by society our parents or our
selves, we can gain a greater understanding of not only our true
personality but to understand with all its complexities our true
self.

A unique experiences comes from my last trip to California. My
sister has a beautiful pit bull named Malibu. She is very happy
and full of energy. Sometimes too much energy, according to my
sister. When the kids come over to visit she loves to see them but
because of her strength and enthusiasm she easily knocks them down
and licks the dickens out of my nieces. Which scares them a bit.
She also gets easily excited and is prone to hyperactivity as well
as what appears to be a separation anxiety when her owners leave.
I asked about her life, where she had lived, who she lived with
and her daily activities. She was mostly a solitary dog and didn't
have much contact with either other animals or humans outside her
owners. Which is unfortunate. I have to add, that, whenever an
animal is alone, especially one that is instinctually accustomed
to being in a pack with several other animals, there are going to
be problems. These animals are accustomed to regular intimate
contact with others and in a hierarchy. When the environment
doesn't fit the inner instincts, they can have difficulty in
modifying their behavior. Whether this was the issue with Malibu,
remained to be seen. After choosing several essences that fit her,
I administered them every thirty minutes for the next couple of
hours and began to see before my eyes her anxiety and high strung
energy level start to melt away. I repeated it the next morning
and that evening when my sister came home she was astonished that
Malibu wasn't jumping wildly. She was completely calm. They were
very thankful and surprised that flowers could have such an
effect. I just smiled. And so did Malibu.
An acquaintance of mine, Ed (*might not be his real name) who was
having some housing, job, love, and health difficulties all at the
same time, was at the breaking point in his life. His MD noticed
the signals and had him placed in the psychiatric ward of the
hospital for a time. He called me from the hospital and we chatted
about his recent issues that contributed to his mental health
condition. Although he had a lot going on in his head he was able
to somehow maintain his composure through his life with all this
going on. After several conversations with him, a clear picture
began to be painted. There was a history of dealing with problems
in his life the easy way. Drinking, using illegal drugs, partying
all night, anything he could do to run from his feelings. These
activities seemed to temporarily drown out all the feeling that he
was suppressing. And when a feeling would come up that he didn't
want to feel he would resort to the self abusing activities. The
cycle of emotional numbing and physical abuse finally started to
take its toll on his health, which in turn began to affect his
work, relationship and finally his only place of refuge, home. Now
at a crossroads, he was metaphorically brought to his knees and
forced to look at himself with an honest mirror.
He felt powerless. After many hours of talking and gaining his
trust, he agreed to have a flower essence consultation when he was
released. After he got out we talked for a along time and finally
narrowed down some immediate issues that had to be addressed
quickly. I found the corresponding flower essences and gave him
special instructions on their use and wanted to see him 5 days
later. Before we were able to meet, he called me the next day and
had some remarkable news. The intense anger and rage that he had
felt was gone. He couldn't understand it. I re-explained the
process of how flower essences work and he was eager for another
consultation. This process of identifying issues and releasing
them with flower essences continued for several more months. After
some time he reached a level of emotional equilibrium. He said
that he felt like a totally different person, and that he even
thought differently! Not based upon the dysfunction that he was
accustomed to previously. He was able to look at his emotions for
what they are and honor them. He no longer had the overbearing
fear of unknown things and said that he could now sleep with the
TV off. And that his sleep was sound and undisturbed. He is doing
much better than before.

In March of 2004 my cousin had her first baby, a girl. The
delivery was very difficult. Because of this a nerve in her neck
was damaged, which led to her not being able to use her right arm.
It was stuck in a twisted extended position. (Erb's Palsey). From
day one, mama described her daughter's crying as painful and
angry. And that her baby would not make eye contact with her. Her
crying was from when she woke up till she went to sleep. Both
parents were stressed from the situation as well as the baby. When
I found out about this I made time to see her that night. She told
me that she was in physical therapy but wasn't too sure if it was
working. I told her that a whole lot could be done not just for
the baby but for the parents too.

The first thing I did was some Quantum-Touch on her. I did it for
about 30 minutes. That was in the evening and the next morning
mama sent me this text message on my cell phone "Wow, Tatiyana has
not cried since last night. Today was the first time she woke up
and didn't cry." I was astonished. Later that day she called and
wanted to make another appointment a.s.a.p. Although she slept
through the night she still has some issues to deal with. After
the first Quantum-Touch treatment she also said that she could now
move her arm. She was unable to do this before. After the second
appointment I worked directly on her neck where the C5 nerve
exits. She slept soundly during the treatment. Afterwards I
recommended some flower essences to help heal the emotional scars
of both the mama and baby. Both received a bottle and reported
amazing results. They made it a point to take them at the same
time, and as the days rolled by she reported that her baby's
crying was much different that before. She was crying not from
anger or pain but from hunger and wanting to be held. And the baby
was making eye contact with mama! And her sleeping at night was
getting better and better. Previously she had not slept through
the night, at all. Both were doing much better than before.
After the second Quantum-Touch session mama said that she was now
able to move her fingers on the affected arm. Before she couldn't.
These are but a few examples of how these simple yet effective
methods of healing can be used. If you or someone you love could
use the assistance of flower essences I would gladly help.
Why I choose Flower Essences
This is my personal experience that led me to flower essences. The
starting point was September 11, 2001. I was 2 blocks away from
the World Trade Center when the attacks began. At first I thought
that it was all a horrible accident. But then when the second
plane hit the other building, then it hit home hard. This was on
purpose. As a thousand thoughts ran through my mind my body began
to numb. My self and thousands of other New Yorkers froze. Some
ran in hysteria and still many others like myself could not even
begin to comprehend the immediate and long term ramifications.
Before I knew it the buildings came down and a thick dust cloud
engulfed me. As the sun began to fade my throat thickened with
soot and breathing was difficult. I finally made my way home and
fell apart. It didn't even hit me until the next that I had
friends in the buildings. I would soon find out later their fate.
I was in school at the time, and studying was very difficult. As
time passed I began to suffer from a myriad of problems. Sleeping
was impossible, nightmares were nonstop, and I had this perpetual
fog in the head. I felt as if a black cloud was over and in my
head. I began to lose my appetite and I started to stay in more
and more. With no immediate support system and family living 3,000
miles away I needed help. I went to my doctor and all he
recommended were drugs to numb my pain and suppress my depression.
After explaining to me the side effects I declined. Panic attacks
set in. Then a couple of months later my grandfather passed away.
With that to deal with and the new found fear of flying I felt
that I was at the end of my line. After coming back from
California, I stumbled across some flower essences in a health
food store. I used the emergency essence for my panic attacks and
used a combination of other essences that began to lift the cloud
over my head. As I addressed each issue, each one began to grow
smaller and smaller until it was no longer a factor in my life. I
was astonished! Within a matter of a couple of months I was
functioning very well. My memory was good long term as well as
short term. The black cloud in and over my head was gone. My
nightmares and fears were well on their way out and my sleeping
was oh so much better. My appetite came back and my energy slowly
began to pick up. I started to enjoy life again. As opposed to the
recluse that I had become. And as time went on I found other
essences that helped my deal with my grief from my grandfather's
death as well as other friends that died September 11th.
I compared myself with some of my classmates that had take
medications for their issues and there was no comparison. Some had
to drop out of school and others were doing much, much worse. This
was the beginning of a journey for me that has led me to today. I
have been so touched by this modality that I now do it
professionally, and by word of mouth, it has spread as to the
effectiveness of it and my special techniques used.
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Bobby holds an Associates Degree in Massage from the
College of Massage Therapy and Acupuncture in New
York City. Delving deeper into holistic care and wellness, he has received extensive training in
Quantum-Touch Therapy in California, as well as additional training and work with Flower Essence Therapy. His experience runs the gamut from six years of
civil service as a Geriatric Nurse from a private
institution, to working with the general public on a day-to-day basis. He presently teaches and holds seminars on various massage modalities and Flower Essence Therapy in
Northern California ,The Tri-State area & Florida
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